Physical restraint cannot restrain that which is spiritual, but the spiritual can bound you physically and spiritually.
This question is dangerous to ask. It presents a very thin line between admiration and covetousness in which this question provokes both.
To my teenage self I would tell myself to take to heart these three things:
Valuable insight is found in the beginning of the book of Job that we must hold close to. If you read it too fast you might miss something very profound!
Love, it is incredibly undervalued and so essential to our very existence. We all need it, even those who reject it.